A Glimpse Into the Past: The Disturbing S£x Education Advice for Girls in 1960s Britain

This post contains excerpts from a 1960s sex education textbook that reflect outdated and oppressive views on gender roles and intimate relationships. It may be distressing or triggering for some readers. Please read with care and feel free to take breaks if needed.

A Glimpse Into the Past: The Disturbing S£x Education Advice for Girls in 1960s Britain

Imagine a world where a young woman’s worth was measured by her ability to obediently serve her husband — even in the intimate moments meant for love and trust. This chilling excerpt from an actual girls’ sex education textbook printed in the early 1960s UK reveals just how far we’ve come... and how far we still have to go.



“When retiring to the bedroom, prepare yourself for bed as promptly as possible. Whilst feminine hygiene is of the utmost importance, your tired husband does not want to queue for the bathroom, as he would have to do for his train.”

Already, the tone is clear: her needs are secondary, her comfort irrelevant.

“Try to achieve a look that is welcoming without being obvious. If you need to apply face cream or hair-rollers wait until he is asleep as this can be shocking to a man last thing at night.”

Her self-care must be hidden, concealed from the man she is meant to serve.

“When it comes to the possibility of intimate relations with your husband it is important to remember your marriage vows and in particular your commitment to obey him. If he feels that he needs to sleep immediately then so be it.”


Intimacy becomes a duty — not a mutual expression of affection — dictated entirely by the husband's desires.


“In all things be led by your husband's wishes; do not pressure him in any way to stimulate intimacy.”


The woman’s desires? Silenced. Her body, a tool for his satisfaction alone.


“Should your husband suggest Congress then agree humbly all the while being mindful that a man's satisfaction is more important than a woman's.”


This cold decree stamps out any hint of female pleasure or agency.

“Should your husband suggest any of the more unusual practices be obedient and uncomplaining but register any reluctance by remaining silent.”

Obedience is demanded, resistance silenced in silence.

“You may then set the alarm so that you can arise shortly before him in the morning. This will enable you to have his morning cup of tea ready.”

Her entire existence revolves around his comfort, his routine — a ceaseless service.

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